Calling All Bergen County Singles
You just might meet your lifetime love at one of these Bergen-centric singles mixers for unattached men and women of all ages.

If you’re romantically unattached, fall is your time, folks. Not only is Sept. 23 National Singles Day—yes, it’s a thing—but ’tis the season for lots of single events for men and women of all ages in and around Bergen County. Maybe if you meet someone now, you’ll be serious enough by the end of the year to spend the holidays together. Hey, it could happen!
Here are a few seasonal mixers at which single folks of all ages can meet other singles in Bergen. Just promise us that if you meet the love of your life, BERGEN gets a little bit of matchmaking credit, OK?
8Minute Dating in Hillsdale. The Cornerstone in Hillsdale hosts an installment of 8Minute Dating, a national leader in speed-dating. On Sept. 27 from 7 to 9 p.m., daters will have eight 8-minute dates with members of the opposite sex in their age bracket (the dates are divided into two age groups; 32-46 and 47-62). There will also be appetizers, a cash bar, raffles and fun ice breakers. Pricing: $34.95. Sign up HERE.
Singles Night in Montvale. Fire & Oak restaurant in Montvale will be buzzing with blossoming love connections at their event hosted by Bergen County Upscale Singles for those in their 40s and 50s. Enjoy cocktails and great conversation on Thursday, Sept. 28 from 7 to 9 p.m. Pricing: free. Reserve your spot HERE.
Single & Mingle in Paramus. Find your new dance partner—literally—when Tango Date NYC hosts a singles dance class at the Paramus Fire Department on Thursday, Sept. 27 at 8:30 p.m. BYOB to this party, where live music, wine and Argentine tango dance lessons will be provided. Pricing: $25, or $10 for college students (hey, Gen Zers need love too!). Sign up HERE.
Tantra speed dating in Edgewater. The Tantra Institute boasts a 94 percent match rate—and lucky for Bergen singles, it brings its speed-dating services to Atmananda Wellness in Edgewater, a new yoga studio, once a month on Saturday nights. Trained facilitators help daters avoid the awkward silences and actually find meaningful conversation in up to 20 guided speed dates a night. Are you in? The upcoming events for singles of all ages are on Sept. 23, Oct. 21 and Nov. 25 from 5:30-8:30 p.m. Pricing starts at $45. Sign up HERE.
Virtual online dating at home. Prefer to date from the comfort of your own couch? NJ First Dates is hosting two virtual speed dating events for singles across the state, where each participant will go on about 10 5-minute virtual dates. Friday, Sept. 22 at 8 p.m. to 9 p.m. is for men and women ages 30-45; next Thursday, Sept. 28 at the same time is reserved for singles between the ages of 44 and 55. Price: $25. Sign up HERE.
What are your thoughts on singles events? Which one of these will you try? DM us at @bergenmagnj.